I was 21. She was 10. I used to be painfully shy. Very uncomfortable with meeting new people. My home church had a unit called the Assimilation Unit that received and conversed with first-timers. After every service... I would hide in the media cubicle to avoid seeing or meeting anybody. My Pastor's wife noticed the routine. She asked me to join the Assimilation Unit, with a target of meeting one new person after every service. A few weeks in, I was asked to visit a first-timer alone. In the...